Friday, October 03, 2008

tender mercies

tonight jon and i made it out on a date. we needed it. it was last minute but it couldn't have been more perfect. as soon as we sat down, i looked at the table across from us and said to jon, "that's stephanie nielson's sister." he couldn't see her from when he was sitting, but i recognized her from the today show clip.

the whole time through dinner we were trying to decide whether or not to say anything. we didn't want to bother them, but at the same time, what are the chances? when they got up to leave, jon stopped them and asked if she was stephanie's sister. jon introduced himself and she didn't recognize the name. jon went on to say he did a benefit by shooting family photos and she stopped him mid-sentence. she said, "you're the photographer?!?".

we continued talking and she asked how he knew stephanie. when jon told her that he didn't, she teared up a bit. we all talked for a few minutes more...us about our kids and them about the nielson's recovery. they asked how september was with 19 shoots in 19 days in 3 states. i was able to tell her that i was a bit apprehensive when it all started, but that it had turned into one of the most poignant and sweet experiences we've had as a family. then we all teared up. there were no words to express our mutual feelings of gratitude and love.

they all shook hands as they were leaving and then she came back and gave me a hug. that hug made all of those 19 days of blissful craziness worth it. what a wonderful, loving Father in Heaven we have to allow such tender mercies in our lives. i always want to remember the faith and strength of this family, and especially of these sisters. keep praying for them.
sisters page, stephanie, courtney, and lucy (image courtesy of cjanerun.com)

12 comments:

  1. Wow, Callie, that's so neat. A tender mercy indeed! You and Jon are so wonderful. I am glad you were given this special moment in time.

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  2. I don't think that was a coincidence.

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  3. That's amazing, Callie. Heavenly Father loves us so much!

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  4. Definitely not a coincidence! What a sweet experience! Thank you for sharing!

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  5. I have to tell you that I was just finsihing watching conference and the choir was singing "I Need Thee Every Hour" and I decided to check the blogs and see if my friends had posted. Let me tell you that when I started reading your post, I was filled with the Spirit. Not only of what an awesome experience that must have been for you and Jon but what amazing people you both are. Wow, you give me Hope to do things that may be out of my comfort zone. You are truly an example of charity and unconditional love. I only hope that through you and Jon I can be a great example. Thank you So much!!! Love you....

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  6. That is so neat. What are the odds? Of course it was not a coincidence. Thanks for sharing.

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  7. What a cool experience. Isn't it amazing how Heavenly Father knows all of us and our needs individually? Thanks for this reminder.

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  8. I love when I recognize God's hand in meeting someone new, just love it!

    This is awesome.

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  9. Wow what are the odds? You just recently blogged about how much the Nielson's story changed you. I don't think anything happens by coincidence. It's nice to have every day miracles like that. :)

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  10. I am so impressed with that story!! Tender Mercy for sure. I would love to run into them at any time. They feel like family to me. I read CJane's blog everyday and hope to hear good news about Stephanie. Thanks for sharing Callie and you will be blessed for doing such a kind act of service!!

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  11. So amazing.

    I wonder if this family will ever truly understand the scope of how their tragedy has touched us.

    I love it.

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